ADHD and Impulsive Buying: How to Stop the Battle for More Peace with Your Money

Have you ever gone to Costco for toothpaste and toilet paper, but by the time you check out, your cart is overflowing with a large box of Reese’s, a mega box of the sampler you tasted, and a barrage of newly marked-down household items? Most of us buy things we don’t plan on buying from time to time. When you live with ADHD, it can be tough to give up the instant rush of satisfaction from impulsive buying. 

ADHD and Impulsivity

When we make purchases, our brains release endorphins and dopamine. Endorphins are neurotransmitters your body releases to decrease pain and increase pleasure. Endorphins fasten to the reward center in the brain, causing dopamine to be released. 

The neurotransmitter, dopamine, is associated with reward and pleasure. Dopamine motivates you to perform an action repeatedly. 

An individual with ADHD who shows extremely impulsive behavior tends to have high levels of dopamine. 

In a study published in the Journal of Neuroscience, researchers showed that increased levels of dopamine caused a greater likelihood of the need for instant gratification and reward. 

They also showed that sensory inputs -- sights, sounds, smells, and anticipation of rewards, made individuals act more impulsively. 

Their conclusions help us understand "why conditions [such as ADHD] associated with irregular, abnormal dopamine functioning can also lead to extremely impulsive behavior." [Wellcome Trust. (2010, June 30). Impulsive, weak-willed, or just too much dopamine? ScienceDaily.] 

Here are three powerful ways to overcome battles with impulsive buying so you can have more control over your finances and make choices that enhance your life.   

Recognize Emotional Spending 

Quick Tips:

• If you find yourself repeatedly buying items that are more pleasurable than practical, check in with yourself and allow yourself to feel what’s going on. 
• Rather than withdrawing into a shopping spree, journal, meditate or check in with a friend.
• Go for a walk, or imagine a calming place, to get a change of scene.  

Create A Plan To Delay Purchases

Impulsivity can lead to overwhelm and inaction and cause hasty decision-making to relieve the pressure. 

For example, even when you know you have your rent to pay, it can be difficult to see into the future until it’s time to pay it. Instead, the ADHD brain can act in the "now" rather than focusing on what needs to happen later. 

Quick Tips:

• To stop the urge to buy now you first must see your time horizon by creating a visual plan. 
• Create a budget: Create a line item for each category or like groupings of items you tend to purchase and for which you need to reserve finances. 
• Use a spreadsheet or app to note your purchases against your budget for each category.
• Note where you may tend to impulse-buy.

Practice Self-Control

According to research by Ridgeway, Kukar-Kinney, and Monroe (2006), impulse buyers seek novelty items and are hyperactive, two characteristics of individuals with ADHD.

Quick Tips:

When confronting a buying situation, reflect on how your answers to the following may conflict with your goals and values:
• Identify what it would mean for you to stop buying impulsively? 
• If you curbed your buying habits, what would life look like for you?
• What monetary goals are you hoping to achieve?   
• What would it mean for your financial well-being?
• What can you do to resist any potential conflict with your goals and values?

To sum up, when you live with ADHD, it can be tough to resist impulsive buying. To have more control over your finances and make choices that enhance your life:

Recognize Emotional Spending

Create A Plan to Delay Purchases

Practice Self-Control 

Warmly,

PS. Need support managing impulsivity living with ADHD? 

Contact me for an ADHD Strategy Assessment and we’ll set up a plan so you can start problem-solving with more peace and calm!

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